Louis -
My thoughts exactly. Kudos to her. I always liked the ability to get what I needed when I needed it instead of having to wait for a tax refund or a SNAP refill.
Willie, I saw first hand when I was in the hospital. I had a social worker come to see me to arrange hospice care and help me apply for other benefits. She outlined what I might be able to get. I told her "that's a life of poverty and despair".
I knew I would not qualify, I had to many assets. Being self-employed I had paid into social security for many year. Not to mention I was not ready to give up, never have been, hopefully I never will. All I wanted was to go home to my bed so I could get some sleep and get better. I went home on the condition I see my doctor everyday, then every week, month, 3 months, 6 months and now yearly or as needed. They told me I would never work or coach again. That was 13 years ago.
I'm no longer "kicking ass and taking down names", but I am still in the game. I haven't seen $3000+ daily profits in many years, but I've been coaching again for 7 years now. This is my 4th year of working. My point is they are defeatists. They put people on social services and it becomes a lift long thing. Just as I expected I missed out on social security disability because the window for me to apply had passed, I did not qualify for anything. I think if I had qualified for benefits I might never have gotten better. I might have accepted it as my fate, I might already be dead.
I understand not everybody has the means to survive such a long drought. I thank God I did, but I did because I always worked hard and always squirreled away everything I could. I never lived at or above my means. Even having lost nearly everything through divorce. I worked twice as hard to rebuild. Shortly after finding my Angel and getting married again. My health failed. My wonderful wife and I could see my rebuilt reserves would not last for ever, even with our life of austerity. My wife took an entry level position in 2009 because that was all that was available in that bad economic time. In less than 3 years she climbed the ranks to become general manager of her own store.
My wife was the general manager for the largest uniform manufacture in Hungary, but she was willing to accept a $9 per hour part time position and through hard work and dedication turned it into a high salary, bonus, profit sharing and great benefits. Too many people won't take a step back to move forward.
My point is these programs don't always help people up, they often keep them down.
Powerman 5000 "Free"
"Let's go
Everybody needs to start their own fire
Everybody needs a riot of their own
Everybody needs to be something they are not
Everybody needs to go it alone (Because)
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't be what you want to be
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't see what you need to see (Okay)
All the time spent hanging on to anything
All the time spent knowing that they are wrong
All the time wasted, stolen back, innocent
You won't get a second more so move it along (Because)
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't be what you want to be
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't see what you need to see
Wishing and hoping and thinking it's you
That's got this all under control
Never a minute has passed you all by
When they haven't invaded your soul
It's not something you can hold
It's not something you own
It's not something you can buy or steal
You've got it when your alone
Being free is a tragedy
When you don't know yourself
Being free is a tragedy
When you don't know who you are
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't be what you want to be
Living so free is a tragedy
When you can't see what you need to see
Lets go
Hey, hey, hey
Alright then
This is the story of your life man"
Songwriters: KELENDRIA ROWLAND,JUANITA WYNN,JAMES CARTER,LARRY MIZELL,DANA STINSON,BEYONCE KNOWLES,MICHELLE WILLIAMS,T. BLACKS,FONCE MIZELL,SHANNELL IRVING
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My faith in God is unwavering, but faith in myself sometimes needs inspiration. Leaning on my family for inspiration can be giving them a burden, I'd rather not do that. Even though they provide inspiration freely.
Here are more songs that have inspired me when the going gets rough. We need to look for inspiration where ever we can find it, just find it!
I could go and on, music can be inspirational.
"If you think you can, you might. If you think you can't, you won't" Coach Lou