Ray, I sure hope your BIL really is doing better but I wouldn't count on it. OTOH, long-time alcoholics sometimes show an amazing resilience to what would kill the rest of us.
I don't know what the safety problems are that need to be fixed but we had a Boy Scout camp in our county where the leaders were very lax about supervising the boys on hikes and overnights away from the main camp. This resulted in several lost scouts that we had to go look for. All those cases turned out fine, with the kid being found basically OK, but we were getting two or three lost scout calls a month. I had a talk with the leaders and told them they needed to tighten up on their supervision or one of their boys was going to get seriously injured or killed. Sure enough, we had another call of a missing scout two weeks later. We searched for almost three days before we found his body at the bottom of a 60 foot cliff. They went out on a night hike with only one adult and the scout managed to wander off the trail. He walked a mile in the wrong direction (no compass either) before his flashlight quit. If he had just sat down and waited, we would have found him that night. Instead, he used what he thought was the North Star, which really had to be Jupiter from his direction of travel, to get back to camp. He walked less than 1/2 mile before he walked right of this cliff and died instantly of head injuries. He was 12 years old. I hope my story might help your folks understand why following the rules are so important to the children's safety.
I don't know what the safety problems are that need to be fixed but we had a Boy Scout camp in our county where the leaders were very lax about supervising the boys on hikes and overnights away from the main camp. This resulted in several lost scouts that we had to go look for. All those cases turned out fine, with the kid being found basically OK, but we were getting two or three lost scout calls a month. I had a talk with the leaders and told them they needed to tighten up on their supervision or one of their boys was going to get seriously injured or killed. Sure enough, we had another call of a missing scout two weeks later. We searched for almost three days before we found his body at the bottom of a 60 foot cliff. They went out on a night hike with only one adult and the scout managed to wander off the trail. He walked a mile in the wrong direction (no compass either) before his flashlight quit. If he had just sat down and waited, we would have found him that night. Instead, he used what he thought was the North Star, which really had to be Jupiter from his direction of travel, to get back to camp. He walked less than 1/2 mile before he walked right of this cliff and died instantly of head injuries. He was 12 years old. I hope my story might help your folks understand why following the rules are so important to the children's safety.