Haha!!! I wondered, because you are already making trucks, if you were gonna go here: To actual couplers. IMO these are a real problem in N-scale, and I do think the Kadee design could be improved upon. Biggest problem in N is the spring effect. N cars are light enough that, even in mid train there is the ping-pong effect. Kinda kills the realism, IMO.
Of course Kadee does now offer the realistic couplers, but, and while they are much more to scale, they do so at the cost of having to lift one up off the other to switch cars. Unless I'm greatly mistaken (always possible), they can't be uncoupled using a vertical pick.
I see several problems. Travel/slop is just too big, which gives the spring room to...yo-yo. The spring itself might be removed in favor of something which compresses, but which does not spring back so easily. Sort of like a micro-miniature version of a "memory foam" cushion. Compresses easily and quickly, but springs back slowly....
And, last, the entire problem of the way couplers are manufactured when injection molded. There is, because the two halves of the mold must be separated and the part ejected...there is a parting line (generally right down the horizontal centerline of each coupler because the two halves separate vertically)...and mold "draft angle," which is needed to get the part loose enough to eject it. So what you have are two couplers basically trying uncouple with each other vertically, simply because of the necessities of the injection mold manufacturing process, and the design.
But what if you could make each knuckle concave, to help lock them together, or even just truly flat (sans any molded draft) instead? What if?
I'll bet the parts might be 3D modelable when printed, and even though such parts might not be machinable on lathes or milling machines, no matter the cost. I think some things are printable, but can't be machined without great cost, or even at all. Things like "herringbone gears."
See those gears @11:15.